- Unlike other relations, you love to do things for your friends because "you just love to" and not because "you must do".
- You know they'll hear you out not because they "have to" but because they genuinely "want to".
- It's not that they'll give you more / less bhaav because you have more / less money. When they call you an idiot, they don't mean it. When they call you a genius, they really mean it.
- Just when you are about to be irreversibly lost in your dreams, they bring you back to reality and you realise this is where you should be.
- Just when the reality gets harsh, they sway you in the world of hope and dreams. You return back to reality with all the strength and confidence.
- There's no obligation whatsoever.
- Arguments are minimalistic. And so are fights, if any. The best part is they never give your heart any scars for life.
- If they don't call / mail you for days, you call them with a few swear words and time flies as you catch up for the lost time. If there's no contact for a few months, you do the same. If you're not in touch for a year or so, ditto. In case of other relations, you simply forget such relatives.
- Friends are the best choice you ever made in life.
Funny, difficult, heaven, hell, happy, sad, beautiful, meaningless, meaningful, confusing... everyday I look at life, everyday it seems different!
Friends - the best choice we ever make
Happy friendship day to all of you! And now that mauka bhi hai, mausam bhi, let me scribble a few things I like about having friends:
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Nice post. As Len Wein said, a friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else.
ReplyDeleteHappy Friendship Day to you Anuradha.
thanks SG! wish u the same!
ReplyDeleteVery well written. I fully agree on all the points.
ReplyDeleteVery Happy Friendship Day to you too Anu :)
Very well written. I fully agree on all the points.
ReplyDeleteVery Happy Friendship Day to you too Anu :)
that is so beautifully said :)
ReplyDeleteloved the points abt dream and reality... so true :)
that is so beautifully said :)
ReplyDeleteloved the points abt dream and reality... so true :)
Too good hai ji Annuji.. Happy friendships day to you too.. God Bless.. Cheers!!
ReplyDeletethanks keyur n rajlakshmi!
ReplyDelete"If they don't call / mail you for days, you call them with a few swear words and time flies as you catch up for the lost time. If there's no contact for a few months, you do the same. If you're not in touch for a year or so, ditto. In case of other relations, you simply forget such relatives."
ReplyDeleteThis is so true Anuradha, so true!
Liked it!
Would you mind if I use the above point as my FB status? :)
hey thanks niket! u can put is as ur fb status, i'll be glad
ReplyDeleteThanks Anuradha! btw I have too written a post on friends:
ReplyDeletehttp://niketgupta.blogspot.com/2010/08/friends-forever-friends-for-life.html
Happy friendship day to you toooo
ReplyDeleteyeaterday-today-tomorrow alwayssss...
loved all the points you mentioned.. I dont see you on my blog anymore :(
thnks Bikramjit! arre too busy with sm work these days
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